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Picked by a first and second grade teacher of 17 years and grandmother of two, for grandparents who love to spoil and would like the gift to still be in use after the visit.Picked by a first and second grade teacher of 17 years and grandmother of two, for grandparents who love to spoil and would like the gift to still be in use after the visit.Picked by a first and second grade teacher of 17 years and grandmother of two, for grandparents who love to spoil and would like the gift to still be in use after the visit.Picked by a first and second grade teacher of 17 years and grandmother of two, for grandparents who love to spoil and would like the gift to still be in use after the visit.

Curated by a 1st & 2nd grade teacher
No screens
Ages 6 months to 12
Still in use weeks later

Curated by a 1st & 2nd grade teacher
No screens
Ages 6 months to 12
Still in use weeks later

Curated by a 1st & 2nd grade teacher
No screens
Ages 6 months to 12
Still in use weeks later

Curated by a 1st & 2nd grade teacher
No screens
Ages 6 months to 12
Still in use weeks later

Written by Joanne PruittJoanne PruittJoanne PruittJoanne Pruitt

1st & 2nd grade teacher, 17 years. Grandmother of two.1st & 2nd grade teacher, 17 years. Grandmother of two.1st & 2nd grade teacher, 17 years. Grandmother of two.1st & 2nd grade teacher, 17 years. Grandmother of two.

Let's be honest with each other: spoiling the grandkids is part of the job. It might be the best part. Nobody becomes a grandmother to hand over sensible socks.

But you know the other feeling too. You pick something out, you picture their face, you wrap it with a real bow. And the next time you visit, there it is in the corner of the playroom, half under a blanket, exactly where it landed three weeks ago.

I've taught first and second grade for 17 years, and every January I get a front-row seat to how Christmas really went. Monday morning share time tells you everything. Hardly anyone brings in the gift that cost the most. They bring the thing they did something with: the thing they built, the thing they made, the thing they finally figured out over the break. You can hear it in how they talk. "I made this." "Watch what I can do now."

It wasn't the $90 wooden kitchen.

It wasn't the ride-on.

The real answer embarrassed all of us, me included.

I taught kindergarten and elementary school for 33 years. I have six grandchildren. And my Christmas shopping has been done before Halloween for five years running.

It isn't about being organized. It started when I began staying a few days after Christmas instead of mailing a box and calling it done. When you mail a gift, the story ends with a photo of torn paper and a big smile. When you stay, you see the rest of it. You see which presents are still out on the kitchen table in February, and which ones were under the bed by New Year's.

Price has nothing to do with it. One year I sent a ninety-dollar wooden play kitchen, the kind with the little knobs that click. I counted maybe four real uses before it became a shelf for stuffed animals. And I have watched grandchild after grandchild spend Christmas morning sitting inside the cardboard box something else came in.

It wasn't the $90 super robot.

It wasn't another plastic toy.

The real answer embarrassed all of us, me included.

I taught kindergarten and elementary school for 33 years. I have six grandchildren. And my Christmas shopping has been done before Halloween for five years running.

Price has nothing to do with it. One year I sent an eighty-dollar wooden play kitchen, the kind with the little knobs that click. I counted maybe four real uses before it became a shelf for stuffed animals. And I have watched grandchild after grandchild spend Christmas morning sitting inside the cardboard box something else came in.

By Christmas afternoon, most of the new toys and clothes are forgotten and strewn about the floor. It isn't because they were bad gifts.

Kids only keep the ones that pass one strange little test. We asked 322 moms, and found just 5 that passed.

Let's be honest with each other: spoiling the grandkids is part of the job. It might be the best part. Nobody becomes a grandmother to hand over sensible socks.

That is the strange little test: did the child do something with it? Only 5 gifts kept passing it, and they're below.

Spoiling them is fine. Spoiling them with something they'll walk past by February is the part that stings.The gifts that last are rarely the ones that do something. They're the ones the child does something with.The gifts that last are rarely the ones that do something. They're the ones the child does something with.Spoiling them is fine. Spoiling them with something they'll walk past by February is the part that stings.

I learned it at home, too. For Harper's sixth birthday, I gave her an interactive puppy that did every trick on the box. She squealed. It was in the closet before March. Harper is eight now and Noah is four, and I shop very differently for both of them.

So let me give you the one honest drawback of every gift on this list before you go any further: none of them will win the moment the wrapping paper comes off. The puppy won that moment. These are quieter. You may get a curious "what is it?" instead of a shriek. Where they win is the afternoon after, and the weekend after that, and the next visit, when you find the gift out on the kitchen table instead of under a blanket. I've made my peace with trading ten seconds of squealing for that.

Before the list, you should know that everything here comes from Paint & Bloom. I didn't set out to pick one company. Theirs are simply the toys that kept passing the test I care about: a child understands them right away, and they still have something new to offer a month later.

Every gift below has to earn its place three ways. Fun enough that the grandchild reaches for it without being asked. Useful enough that the parents nod instead of sigh. And lasting enough that you never have to explain the choice on your next visit. That's my definition of guilt-free.

One practical note. If your grandchildren are spread across the ages the way mine are, check the age line on each gift first. The Water Elf Kit stretches the furthest, from three all the way to twelve, which makes it the easy answer for the big kids, who are the hardest to spoil well. The others start with the little ones and grow from there.

In this guideThe 5 that actually survivedThe 5 that actually survivedThe 5 that passed

Magic Water Elf KitMagic Water Elf KitMagic Water Elf KitMagic Water Elf Kit3 to 12 years (a grown-up helps with the first mix)3 to 12 years (a grown-up helps with the first mix)3 to 12 years (a grown-up helps with the first mix)3 to 12 years (a grown-up helps with the first mix)
Montessori Busy BoardMontessori Busy BoardMontessori Busy BoardMontessori Busy Board6 months to 5 years6 months to 5 years6 months to 5 years6 months to 5 years
Lumiboard LED Drawing BoardLumiboard LED Drawing BoardLumiboard LED Drawing BoardLumiboard LED Drawing Board3 years and up3 years and up3 years and up3 years and up
Water Painting BooksWater Painting BooksWater Painting BooksWater Painting Books2 to 6 years2 to 6 years2 to 6 years2 to 6 years
Montessori Christmas TreeMontessori Christmas TreeMontessori Christmas TreeMontessori Christmas Tree18 months and up18 months and up18 months and up18 months and up

1. Magic Water Elf KitMagic Water Elf KitMagic Water Elf KitMagic Water Elf Kit

★★★★★ 70,000+ reviews (4.8/5)70,000+ reviews (4.8/5)70,000+ reviews (4.8/5)70,000+ reviews (4.8/5)

"I bought it for my granddaughter and ended up doing half of it myself. We were both at the table for two hours. I can't remember the last gift that did that.""I bought it for my granddaughter and ended up doing half of it myself. We were both at the table for two hours. I can't remember the last gift that did that.""I bought it for my granddaughter and ended up doing half of it myself. We were both at the table for two hours. I can't remember the last gift that did that.""I bought it for my granddaughter and ended up doing half of it myself. We were both at the table for two hours. I can't remember the last gift that did that."
Barbara K.Barbara K.Barbara K.Barbara K.Verified

AgesAgesAgesAges: 3 to 12 years (a grown-up helps with the first mix); 3 to 12 years (a grown-up helps with the first mix); 3 to 12 years (a grown-up helps with the first mix); 3 to 12 years (a grown-up helps with the first mix)
Why It Made My ListWhy It Made My ListWhy It Made My ListWhy It Made My List: This is the rare gift that works just as well for a four-year-old as for an eight-year-old. The child squeezes colored gel into a sea-creature mold, dips it into a bowl of water, and a minute later lifts out a squishy little creature they made themselves. It's real chemistry: a seaweed gel and a food-grade calcium salt, the same trick chefs use. The little ones love the surprise. The older ones start designing.; This is the rare gift that works just as well for a four-year-old as for an eight-year-old. The child squeezes colored gel into a sea-creature mold, dips it into a bowl of water, and a minute later lifts out a squishy little creature they made themselves. It's real chemistry: a seaweed gel and a food-grade calcium salt, the same trick chefs use. The little ones love the surprise. The older ones start designing.; This is the rare gift that works just as well for a four-year-old as for an eight-year-old. The child squeezes colored gel into a sea-creature mold, dips it into a bowl of water, and a minute later lifts out a squishy little creature they made themselves. It's real chemistry: a seaweed gel and a food-grade calcium salt, the same trick chefs use. The little ones love the surprise. The older ones start designing.; This is the rare gift that works just as well for a four-year-old as for an eight-year-old. The child squeezes colored gel into a sea-creature mold, dips it into a bowl of water, and a minute later lifts out a squishy little creature they made themselves. It's real chemistry: a seaweed gel and a food-grade calcium salt, the same trick chefs use. The little ones love the surprise. The older ones start designing.
Why the Parents Won't MindWhy the Parents Won't MindWhy the Parents Won't MindWhy the Parents Won't Mind: Everything is in the box: molds, gels, powder packets, a basin, gloves and a storage box. The ingredients are non-toxic and biodegradable, which is always the first question. After one demonstration a five-year-old runs it alone, so it doesn't swallow the parents' whole afternoon. A towel under the basin takes care of the cleanup.; Everything is in the box: molds, gels, powder packets, a basin, gloves and a storage box. The ingredients are non-toxic and biodegradable, which is always the first question. After one demonstration a five-year-old runs it alone, so it doesn't swallow the parents' whole afternoon. A towel under the basin takes care of the cleanup.; Everything is in the box: molds, gels, powder packets, a basin, gloves and a storage box. The ingredients are non-toxic and biodegradable, which is always the first question. After one demonstration a five-year-old runs it alone, so it doesn't swallow the parents' whole afternoon. A towel under the basin takes care of the cleanup.; Everything is in the box: molds, gels, powder packets, a basin, gloves and a storage box. The ingredients are non-toxic and biodegradable, which is always the first question. After one demonstration a five-year-old runs it alone, so it doesn't swallow the parents' whole afternoon. A towel under the basin takes care of the cleanup.
Why It's Guilt-FreeWhy It's Guilt-FreeWhy It's Guilt-FreeWhy It's Guilt-Free: It's a science lesson the child never notices they're having. Mix, wait, test, adjust, try again: that's the exact thinking I spend half of second grade trying to build. One kit makes 30-plus creations, and more often than not, the grandparent who bought it ends up at the table making one too.; It's a science lesson the child never notices they're having. Mix, wait, test, adjust, try again: that's the exact thinking I spend half of second grade trying to build. One kit makes 30-plus creations, and more often than not, the grandparent who bought it ends up at the table making one too.; It's a science lesson the child never notices they're having. Mix, wait, test, adjust, try again: that's the exact thinking I spend half of second grade trying to build. One kit makes 30-plus creations, and more often than not, the grandparent who bought it ends up at the table making one too.; It's a science lesson the child never notices they're having. Mix, wait, test, adjust, try again: that's the exact thinking I spend half of second grade trying to build. One kit makes 30-plus creations, and more often than not, the grandparent who bought it ends up at the table making one too.

2. Montessori Busy BoardMontessori Busy BoardMontessori Busy BoardMontessori Busy Board

★★★★★ 1,150 reviews1,150 reviews1,150 reviews1,150 reviews

"Going out to eat used to feel impossible... The first time we brought the busy board, he sat happily buckling and zipping for half an hour. My husband and I actually finished dinner together for the first time in months.""Going out to eat used to feel impossible... The first time we brought the busy board, he sat happily buckling and zipping for half an hour. My husband and I actually finished dinner together for the first time in months.""Going out to eat used to feel impossible... The first time we brought the busy board, he sat happily buckling and zipping for half an hour. My husband and I actually finished dinner together for the first time in months.""Going out to eat used to feel impossible... The first time we brought the busy board, he sat happily buckling and zipping for half an hour. My husband and I actually finished dinner together for the first time in months."
Melody JMelody JMelody JMelody JVerified

AgesAgesAgesAges: 6 months to 5 years; 6 months to 5 years; 6 months to 5 years; 6 months to 5 years
Why It Made My ListWhy It Made My ListWhy It Made My ListWhy It Made My List: For the littlest grandchildren, I don't know anything that holds attention better. Thirty-plus real fastenings on one board: zippers, buckles, laces and more. No batteries, no songs, no blinking lights. Just the small, stubborn jobs that little hands are desperate to master.; For the littlest grandchildren, I don't know anything that holds attention better. Thirty-plus real fastenings on one board: zippers, buckles, laces and more. No batteries, no songs, no blinking lights. Just the small, stubborn jobs that little hands are desperate to master.; For the littlest grandchildren, I don't know anything that holds attention better. Thirty-plus real fastenings on one board: zippers, buckles, laces and more. No batteries, no songs, no blinking lights. Just the small, stubborn jobs that little hands are desperate to master.; For the littlest grandchildren, I don't know anything that holds attention better. Thirty-plus real fastenings on one board: zippers, buckles, laces and more. No batteries, no songs, no blinking lights. Just the small, stubborn jobs that little hands are desperate to master.
Why the Parents Won't MindWhy the Parents Won't MindWhy the Parents Won't MindWhy the Parents Won't Mind: It goes everywhere: restaurants, flights, waiting rooms, the back seat. The pages come off, so two siblings can each take one. It's the kind of gift parents end up grabbing on their way out the door.; It goes everywhere: restaurants, flights, waiting rooms, the back seat. The pages come off, so two siblings can each take one. It's the kind of gift parents end up grabbing on their way out the door.; It goes everywhere: restaurants, flights, waiting rooms, the back seat. The pages come off, so two siblings can each take one. It's the kind of gift parents end up grabbing on their way out the door.; It goes everywhere: restaurants, flights, waiting rooms, the back seat. The pages come off, so two siblings can each take one. It's the kind of gift parents end up grabbing on their way out the door.
Why It's Guilt-FreeWhy It's Guilt-FreeWhy It's Guilt-FreeWhy It's Guilt-Free: Every buckle on that board is a buckle on their own coat, shoes or car seat. A child who has beaten the zipper on the board starts insisting on doing their own jacket. As a teacher, I can tell you the children who arrive in first grade able to zip and buckle on their own have a much easier September.; Every buckle on that board is a buckle on their own coat, shoes or car seat. A child who has beaten the zipper on the board starts insisting on doing their own jacket. As a teacher, I can tell you the children who arrive in first grade able to zip and buckle on their own have a much easier September.; Every buckle on that board is a buckle on their own coat, shoes or car seat. A child who has beaten the zipper on the board starts insisting on doing their own jacket. As a teacher, I can tell you the children who arrive in first grade able to zip and buckle on their own have a much easier September.; Every buckle on that board is a buckle on their own coat, shoes or car seat. A child who has beaten the zipper on the board starts insisting on doing their own jacket. As a teacher, I can tell you the children who arrive in first grade able to zip and buckle on their own have a much easier September.

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3. Lumiboard LED Drawing BoardLumiboard LED Drawing BoardLumiboard LED Drawing BoardLumiboard LED Drawing Board

★★★★★ 569 reviews (4.9/5)569 reviews (4.9/5)569 reviews (4.9/5)569 reviews (4.9/5)

"I purchased 2. One for each family of grandchildren. They both loved it. Kept them entertained for ages.""I purchased 2. One for each family of grandchildren. They both loved it. Kept them entertained for ages.""I purchased 2. One for each family of grandchildren. They both loved it. Kept them entertained for ages.""I purchased 2. One for each family of grandchildren. They both loved it. Kept them entertained for ages."
Lynn P.Lynn P.Lynn P.Lynn P.Verified

AgesAgesAgesAges: 3 years and up; 3 years and up; 3 years and up; 3 years and up
Why It Made My ListWhy It Made My ListWhy It Made My ListWhy It Made My List: This is my answer for the grandchild who would rather be on a tablet. It glows, so it feels a little like a screen, but nothing on it plays, scrolls or talks. Every glowing line is one the child drew. One wipe and it's blank again. It runs on USB power.; This is my answer for the grandchild who would rather be on a tablet. It glows, so it feels a little like a screen, but nothing on it plays, scrolls or talks. Every glowing line is one the child drew. One wipe and it's blank again. It runs on USB power.; This is my answer for the grandchild who would rather be on a tablet. It glows, so it feels a little like a screen, but nothing on it plays, scrolls or talks. Every glowing line is one the child drew. One wipe and it's blank again. It runs on USB power.; This is my answer for the grandchild who would rather be on a tablet. It glows, so it feels a little like a screen, but nothing on it plays, scrolls or talks. Every glowing line is one the child drew. One wipe and it's blank again. It runs on USB power.
Why the Parents Won't MindWhy the Parents Won't MindWhy the Parents Won't MindWhy the Parents Won't Mind: No marker on the walls and no stacks of paper on the floor. And if you have grandchildren in two households, it's an easy one to buy twice, just like the grandmother above.; No marker on the walls and no stacks of paper on the floor. And if you have grandchildren in two households, it's an easy one to buy twice, just like the grandmother above.; No marker on the walls and no stacks of paper on the floor. And if you have grandchildren in two households, it's an easy one to buy twice, just like the grandmother above.; No marker on the walls and no stacks of paper on the floor. And if you have grandchildren in two households, it's an easy one to buy twice, just like the grandmother above.
Why It's Guilt-FreeWhy It's Guilt-FreeWhy It's Guilt-FreeWhy It's Guilt-Free: Drawing is how six- and seven-year-olds plan, tell stories and work out their letters before they can write them well. This gives them a fresh page forever. A four-year-old scribbles, an eight-year-old draws comic strips, and nobody ever runs out of paper.; Drawing is how six- and seven-year-olds plan, tell stories and work out their letters before they can write them well. This gives them a fresh page forever. A four-year-old scribbles, an eight-year-old draws comic strips, and nobody ever runs out of paper.; Drawing is how six- and seven-year-olds plan, tell stories and work out their letters before they can write them well. This gives them a fresh page forever. A four-year-old scribbles, an eight-year-old draws comic strips, and nobody ever runs out of paper.; Drawing is how six- and seven-year-olds plan, tell stories and work out their letters before they can write them well. This gives them a fresh page forever. A four-year-old scribbles, an eight-year-old draws comic strips, and nobody ever runs out of paper.

See the LumiboardSee the LumiboardSee the LumiboardSee the Lumiboard

4. Water Painting BooksWater Painting BooksWater Painting BooksWater Painting Books

★★★★★ Rated 4.9/5Rated 4.9/5Rated 4.9/5Rated 4.9/5

"Every time they come over, they go straight to these and are at it for 30mins to an hour. I love that they're reusable. They are fun for kids, have very beautiful art, and well worth the money for how many times it can be used!""Every time they come over, they go straight to these and are at it for 30mins to an hour. I love that they're reusable. They are fun for kids, have very beautiful art, and well worth the money for how many times it can be used!""Every time they come over, they go straight to these and are at it for 30mins to an hour. I love that they're reusable. They are fun for kids, have very beautiful art, and well worth the money for how many times it can be used!""Every time they come over, they go straight to these and are at it for 30mins to an hour. I love that they're reusable. They are fun for kids, have very beautiful art, and well worth the money for how many times it can be used!"
LizaLizaLizaLizaVerified

AgesAgesAgesAges: 2 to 6 years; 2 to 6 years; 2 to 6 years; 2 to 6 years
Why It Made My ListWhy It Made My ListWhy It Made My ListWhy It Made My List: Three books (Fairy Tale, Animals and Dinosaurs) and three pens the child fills with tap water. They sweep the pen across a page and the colors appear. That's the whole trick, and it works every single time.; Three books (Fairy Tale, Animals and Dinosaurs) and three pens the child fills with tap water. They sweep the pen across a page and the colors appear. That's the whole trick, and it works every single time.; Three books (Fairy Tale, Animals and Dinosaurs) and three pens the child fills with tap water. They sweep the pen across a page and the colors appear. That's the whole trick, and it works every single time.; Three books (Fairy Tale, Animals and Dinosaurs) and three pens the child fills with tap water. They sweep the pen across a page and the colors appear. That's the whole trick, and it works every single time.
Why the Parents Won't MindWhy the Parents Won't MindWhy the Parents Won't MindWhy the Parents Won't Mind: Water is the only thing in the pen, so there's nothing to stain. It's quiet and small enough for a purse, which makes it a parent's best friend at a restaurant table.; Water is the only thing in the pen, so there's nothing to stain. It's quiet and small enough for a purse, which makes it a parent's best friend at a restaurant table.; Water is the only thing in the pen, so there's nothing to stain. It's quiet and small enough for a purse, which makes it a parent's best friend at a restaurant table.; Water is the only thing in the pen, so there's nothing to stain. It's quiet and small enough for a purse, which makes it a parent's best friend at a restaurant table.
Why It's Guilt-FreeWhy It's Guilt-FreeWhy It's Guilt-FreeWhy It's Guilt-Free: It builds the careful grip and steady hand I still see new first graders working on, and it does it disguised as a surprise. Then the page dries in five or six minutes and goes back to white, so the same book gets painted again tomorrow.; It builds the careful grip and steady hand I still see new first graders working on, and it does it disguised as a surprise. Then the page dries in five or six minutes and goes back to white, so the same book gets painted again tomorrow.; It builds the careful grip and steady hand I still see new first graders working on, and it does it disguised as a surprise. Then the page dries in five or six minutes and goes back to white, so the same book gets painted again tomorrow.; It builds the careful grip and steady hand I still see new first graders working on, and it does it disguised as a surprise. Then the page dries in five or six minutes and goes back to white, so the same book gets painted again tomorrow.

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5. Montessori Christmas TreeMontessori Christmas TreeMontessori Christmas TreeMontessori Christmas Tree

AgesAgesAgesAges: 18 months and up; 18 months and up; 18 months and up; 18 months and up
Why It Made My ListWhy It Made My ListWhy It Made My ListWhy It Made My List: A soft felt tree for a wall or a door, hung at the child's height, with 26 felt ornaments that press on and peel off, plus a string of warm fairy lights for the grown-ups to hang out of reach. It's the one Christmas tree in the house a toddler is allowed to touch.; A soft felt tree for a wall or a door, hung at the child's height, with 26 felt ornaments that press on and peel off, plus a string of warm fairy lights for the grown-ups to hang out of reach. It's the one Christmas tree in the house a toddler is allowed to touch.; A soft felt tree for a wall or a door, hung at the child's height, with 26 felt ornaments that press on and peel off, plus a string of warm fairy lights for the grown-ups to hang out of reach. It's the one Christmas tree in the house a toddler is allowed to touch.; A soft felt tree for a wall or a door, hung at the child's height, with 26 felt ornaments that press on and peel off, plus a string of warm fairy lights for the grown-ups to hang out of reach. It's the one Christmas tree in the house a toddler is allowed to touch.
Why the Parents Won't MindWhy the Parents Won't MindWhy the Parents Won't MindWhy the Parents Won't Mind: It ends a month of "don't touch that." The real tree stays decorated, and the little one has a job of their own. It folds flat for storage.; It ends a month of "don't touch that." The real tree stays decorated, and the little one has a job of their own. It folds flat for storage.; It ends a month of "don't touch that." The real tree stays decorated, and the little one has a job of their own. It folds flat for storage.; It ends a month of "don't touch that." The real tree stays decorated, and the little one has a job of their own. It folds flat for storage.
Why It's Guilt-FreeWhy It's Guilt-FreeWhy It's Guilt-FreeWhy It's Guilt-Free: Pinching, peeling, choosing, placing: fine-motor practice a toddler will happily repeat all December. And it comes back out every year, which makes it a tradition rather than one more toy. Order it before December 10 to have it in time.; Pinching, peeling, choosing, placing: fine-motor practice a toddler will happily repeat all December. And it comes back out every year, which makes it a tradition rather than one more toy. Order it before December 10 to have it in time.; Pinching, peeling, choosing, placing: fine-motor practice a toddler will happily repeat all December. And it comes back out every year, which makes it a tradition rather than one more toy. Order it before December 10 to have it in time.; Pinching, peeling, choosing, placing: fine-motor practice a toddler will happily repeat all December. And it comes back out every year, which makes it a tradition rather than one more toy. Order it before December 10 to have it in time.

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About That Word, "Spoiling"About That Word, "Spoiling"About That Word, "Spoiling"About That Word, "Spoiling"

Spoiling a grandchild doesn't have to mean the biggest box or the loudest toy. To me, it means giving them something that keeps making sense to them long after you've gone home.

Every gift above was chosen because children come back to it on their own, parents are glad to have it in the house, and you'll never have to defend it over the next family dinner.

If you're torn, pick for the child you know, not for the box that looks best under the tree. The tinkerer who can't leave a zipper alone gets the Busy Board. The one who asks "but why?" about everything gets the Water Elf Kit. The one who draws on anything that holds still gets the Lumiboard. You know these children better than any list does.

Paint & Bloom ships from the US in 3 to 5 days, with express if you need it, and every gift has a 90-day guarantee. Fewer than 1% of buyers ask for their money back. If there's a toddler in the family, get the Christmas Tree ordered before December 10.

So go ahead and spoil them. Just spoil them with something they'll still be playing with in March.